A woman once said to me, “You cook and clean? You must be gay!”
No. Many straight – and manly – guys do cook, and believe me, women love them.
Fewer women cook today, and we know why: They’re busy. Many of the women I know work harder than I do and consider the kitchen mainly a storage unit for the Starbucks travel mugs that keep them flying through their day. They offer to take us out and pick up the tab or at least go dutch – anything to avoid adding meal preparation to their busy days. You don’t have to say “no” if she’s buying, but when it’s time to return the favor, charming her from your kitchen (or hers) will separate you from the herd. You’re The Straight Guy Who Cooks.
She remembers someone cooking for her when she was a kid, and childhood memories are powerful. People remember a great hook-up, a great round, and a great meal. If you’re not so good at the first two, the latter is a good cover.
For those of you who’ve never cooked before, I’ve kept this book simple – the way I’d have liked it when I was starting out. You’ll find my easy but timetested recipes will win the hearts of women, family and friends. And they’re accompanied by step-by-step photos to keep things clear.
Once you’ve mastered the basics, you can start experimenting, as my dad and I did. Eventually you’ll be able to do it without looking at the book. Imagine the look in her eye when you do.
In the meantime, if you’ve got a date and want to get lucky, just follow the steps in this book.